Certainly, I have the Recession to thank for my very positive turn of events. During good times very few marketing decision-makers need a guy to increase sales when sales are booming. But, when the ‘cupboard is bare’ as it has been for the past year, I have been busier than a one-armed paper hanger!

Sadly, a few of these inquiries waited too long and found themselves already drowning in negative cash flow or worse having their assets repossessed. They just waited too long to take corrective action.

I’m not a miracle-worker. Granted, I’ve been fortunate to account for some very exciting turn-arounds but only because the opportunities and circumstances were aligned with my expertise and skills and the clients followed through with my timely recommendations.

The old definition of luck of ‘when opportunities meet the prepared mind’ may seem trite but it’s true and I have my father and my old high school Latin Teacher, John Bell, to thank for his often quoted, “everything one experiences in life is grist for the mill”.

For years, I labored diligently and stayed the course pursuing my laser-focus of mastering the sales prospecting process rather than wandering off course and trying to become all things to all potential clients who needed presentation, closing, and customer service skills training.

Make no mistake; many times I was tempted to accept sales training assignments outside of my area of expertise to pay the bills. I stayed the course and remained focused on b2b (business to business) sales prospecting and new business development challenges and now, I’m thrilled to say, it was the right thing to do!

This past weekend, I finished reading Malcolm Gladwell’s Outliers, the best-selling ‘success’ book, which was filled with countless stories and affirmations of why it pays to become an expert in a discipline and how where we come from and how those around us are truly responsible for our successes in life.

“I chose the path less travelled and it has made all the difference’ Robert Frost’s memorable poetic words ring true, again. My purpose with this blog posting is to remind those who are at the crossroads of their careers to pursue a life’s work they genuine enjoy and a career where their expertise can be counted on to deliver relevant and timely value to others.

Years ago, Zig Ziglar, whom I once met at a National Speakers Association Convention, advised me to follow my heart and do well what I enjoy most even though the compensation (at that time) may not meet my expectations because eventually I would triumph and be paid what I am worth.

Those ‘years ago’ are now and I’m thankful I followed his sage advice!

What if ‘John Hancock’ had signed his name as ‘John H’ or just ‘JH’ instead of his bold first and last name signature stroke for all to view? This was truly a proud, bold statement of one of the few who stood against the Tyranny of the Oppressive Rule of King George in Colonial America.

This was a stroke of penmanship which could lead to dire consequences and did for many of the original Declaration of Independence signors and their families.

I’m challenging all you ‘big talkers’ out there in the blog sphere to cease being so critical and to start applying your skills and talents to initiate something constructive.

Is action too much to ask? I don’t think so. I’ll publish your relevant, verbatim Comments if there is no abusive language and your comments are formed sentences, not just Tweets.

Yesterday, while enjoying a cigar with a good friend, we mused at how few people, today take serious action to convert their opinions into concrete actions. Flapping one’s lips versus walking the talk has become the safe, acceptable behavior.

While freedom of speech is a wonderful expression of what we cherish as Americans and blogging has unleashed millions of individual opinions, isn’t it time to take action to convert concepts into practical realities to give them legs and feet not just voices?

The great divide or chasm between thinking and doing remains broad because of the fear of consequences, scorn by peers; or, it may require effort to do more than lift a finger at a keyboard. Action requires effort, commitment and exposure.

Lately, the Radio Talk Show Media has moved millions of Americans to attend Tea Parties to protest out of control government spending. In cities across America protesters have registered their dissatisfaction with our current Federal Government Policies.

Fair Tax Advocates have formed local groups to take constructive action to move their cause out of the discussion stage. Strong feelings and opinions have motivated some groups to form lines in the sand and to create plans of action.

Whatever your cause, I encourage you to take the next step to take action because we only have to take note of the ultimate sacrifices of our defenders of freedom at the far outposts they guard to preserve our July 4^th Freedoms we sometimes take for granted.

While July 4^th Celebrations reminded us of our consecrated values, lets demonstrate to those in uniform that we seriously appreciate their actions on our behalf. That we too are brave enough to stand up and be counted and held accountable for our actions.

Do you agree?

You may recall, in my November 13th posting, I talked about how the 30 Chapters in my Central Florida BNI Region comprised my formal network. Also, how BNI-sponsored referral training has been instrumental in insulating us from this Recession. BNI teaches us the process of how to conduct Dance Cards. A Dance Card is a face-time interview between two BNI members. First, members of the same chapter and later, members of other chapters. 

Scheduling Dance Cards every week inside and outside my chapter has resulted in what I refer to as my informal Super GIVERS Network. Basically, it’s my Central Florida Regional Network. These are BNI Members who are serious about exchanging referrals which convert into paying customers and even, advocates who become second and third tiered referral sources inside our 4 county region.

Right now, there are 26 business professionals in my informal BNI Super GIVERS Network and it continues to grow. In return for their vigilance, I constantly listen and look for referrals which will convert to paying customers for them in West Orange and South Lake Counties. Unselfish reciprocity is our battle cry.

It sounds like a lot of paper shuffling. It’s not. In fact, all of the 1 page Dance Card INFO Profiles of these Super GIVERS are kept in my red binder in my car, tab-divided by service category. For example, I have several Super GIVERS who are in the Payroll-Processing tab section. I avoid confusion by sub-dividing their expertise. One specializes in fast-food restaurants and take-out services while another is a construction industry expert.

I don’t deal with generalists - those who claim to know it all – or, who want the whole pie. Why not? Well, I’m living-proof clients prefer to hire specialists. I don’t train b2b sales professionals how to present, close the sale or how to conduct customer service after the sale. I am well-versed and experienced in these skills. I just choose NOT to be a generalist sales trainer. My expertise is giving them the tools to painlessly and systematically gain repeated, ethical access to those who sign the checks for what they sell.

Actually, NOT giving these b2b sales professionals the tools but teaching them how & when to use these tools to gain repeated, ethical access. The difference between access and ethical access is important. With ‘ethical access’ one is always invited back by the prospective client. There are no gimmicks used to end-run the gatekeeper or to attempt to fool the decision-maker. Also, by choosing NOT to, I’m doing what I love to do which is to train and rub elbows with the World’s Greatest Sales Prospectors.

This isn’t work, it’s fun! I’m not a golfer, bowler or bass fisherman. One day each month I enjoy surf-fishing in the Atlantic Ocean with my retired friends whom I refuse to join as another retiree. I plan to work as long as I can help others master the art and science of Power Prospecting.

Back to my informal Super GIVERS network! These are sales professionals who passed my test. The ‘test’ is whether they share serious referrals – unselfishly – or whether, it’s the you give me 1 referral and then I’ll give you 1 childish mindset. Once I sense I’m sitting in the presence of a Super GIVER, I will open my address book and share all my worthy contacts with my new-found Super GIVER associate. Sometimes, it’s as many as 20 or as few as 5 contacts. It depends on what I understand to be an ideal contact for that person. During the Dance Card (BNI lingo) we sit down and understand each other’s best prospect trigger phrases or cues. For example, on my 1 Page Dance Card INFO sheet, there is this question: What trigger phrases should I listen for?  These are cues, which when overheard, would indicate I’m in the presence of a good prospect for you.  

My 3 trigger phrases are: “I just can’t seem to get in front of decision-makers” or,  “How do you get past voice mail jail and get decision-makers to return your voice mail messages?” or, “My commission check is on a diet during this Recession.”  When one of my Super GIVERS hears one of these statements, he/she is trained to reply, “I know someone who may be able to help you. He specializes in helping b2b sales professionals earn the income they deserve. If I ask Gordie Allen to call you, will you accept his call?”  An affirmative answer results in a business card exchange and a confirming preferred call time. That’s all I need for a lead. A recommendation  or a referral is better but this door-opening lead works for me.

BNI provides members a lengthy 3 page questionnaire to conduct a very thorough Dance Card. I prefer my 1 page Dance Card INFO Sheet since it provides me an accurate snapshot, something I can quickly review while gridlocked in traffic. I like having all the relevant Super GIVERS info captured on 1 single sided page.

Dance Cards need to be updated. At least monthly, so I’ll call my informal Super GIVER network partners to discover what’s new? What new services, products or testimonials or ’specials’ they have added to make their offering that much more customer-attractive. The BIG BENEfit of organizing and building an informal referral network of Super GIVERS is they never stop giving as long as everyone reciprocates. Sustaining and growing the informal network is easy once you build momentum and referral partners get referrals which convert into paying customers.  

Today, the day before Thanksgiving, I’m waiting to convert one more referral into a paying customer which would make this my best November sales-topper in 30 years! Next week, I’ll give you my November Report Card: the ROI and Why my Super GIVERS Gain Network is worth the nurturing and effort. Also, in December, you will learn about another group which is becoming a hugely productive source of more board-room level referrals for me.

FYI, if you’d like a copy of my Super GIVERS Dance Card INFO Sheet, to start your own informal Super GIVERS Network, do this: e-mail me at: eurekaman43@hotmail.com and in the Subject line, enter Send Super GIVERS INFO Sheet. This will be my early Holiday Gift to you. Stay well, prosper and make it a memorable Thanksgiving!